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the writer, the fraud Posted 10 months ago
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I'm feeling like a big ole fraud in calling myself a writer. The fraudulent part of it is that I don't remember the last time I actually sat down and wrote more than a paragraph (or a blog entry - do those count?). The problem isn't time it's energy. I have none.

Miss E has nightmares you see, so, even though she sleeps for a good 12 hours at night she has anywhere up to and over five nightmares which not only wake me but require I actually get up and do something. Not only that, but I'm a night person. Always have been and, since having a baby, I cherish my nights even more because (as I'm sure you know if you have kids) this is the biggest (and sometimes only) block of time I have to myself without having to deal with someone else's needs.

Of course there are 101 things I want to do with this block of time and none of them include sitting still and thinking through a storyline. So, while I technically have time to write I have nothing *to* write.

In all honesty I don't know how people do it. How do you fit raising a young child full time, household duties and raising a husband in with writing? Seriously, I need to know!


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annettelyon said (9 months ago)
Take advantage of those times where you're using only half your brain to think of stories and characters and what scene comes next. You know--unloading the dishwasher, changing poopie diapers, folding laundry. You know the times. Then when you DO land a golden 45-minute block, you can sit down and crank out a scene that's waiting to go. That's one of several ways I've managed to do it. I've been writing regularly since my first baby was born. He's now in junior high and has three little sisters. It CAN be done! Good luck!
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nell said (9 months ago)
This has been a problem for me lately too. Until last spring I was in school full time in addition to the mom gig, and the regular deadline seemed to be enough to force me to focus and write, even when I had no energy at all. Without them I always seem to be able to find something else that is more pressing than putting words on paper. So maybe deadlines are the answer? Wish I had something better to offer you!
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averygray said (10 months ago)
I didn't start writing until Ethan was in school a couple days a week full-time, so I don't know if I'm the best person to ask. I couldn't do it when he was younger. Not only did I not have the time, but I felt guilty taking it while he was clamoring for my attention. Having a few days a week to devote to it has made a huge difference. Now I can think about what I want to write on the days that he's home, and actually write them on the days he's in school.

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